Introduction
It is becoming widely known and accepted that our mind,
body, and spirit should be treated as a whole versus its interdependent
parts. As Dacher (2006) quotes “the mind
is the body, the body is the mind” (p. 18).
The condition of one aspect of us reflects the condition of another – so
they should be treated as a whole cause one affects the other. To fully understand this connection and
provide adequate integral services, it is important that we not only embrace
this concept as professionals of health and wellness; but also develop it
ourselves. As we work towards human
flourishing and develop our own selves psychologically, spiritually and
physically, we can speak from experience as we help other individuals through
the same process. Without this
experience we cannot fully grasp the challenges and struggles one may face or
be able to explain different techniques necessary to move them towards integral
health.
In looking at my own life, I noticed that I am not
balanced in all areas. I need to further
develop psychologically and spiritually in order to achieve the goals that I
have for myself. In this paper, I will
discuss how I have assessed my health in each domain, goals that I have made
for myself in each area, strategies for fostering growth in each of the
domains, and how I will commit and assess progress in the future.
Assessment
To assess my health in each domain, I used a scale from
1 to 10. 1 referring to as needing the
most development and 10 referring to as needing the least development. My goal is to have all domains in the range of
7 to 10. Currently, I rank myself
psychologically at 6 needing a little work; spiritually as a 3 needing the most
work; and physically as an 8 being in the range I find acceptable.
Goal Development
Although I think
that my physical domain is in an acceptable range, it is not perfect and can be
further improved. To further develop
this area of my life, I want to ensure that I do not run the risk of developing
high blood pressure again. My
psychological domain is okay and needs some working on to reach a level between
7 and 10. To further develop this area
of my life, I want to work on not letting my emotions take control of me. I call this emotional hijacking and there are
certain experiences that cause me to have an automatic and uncontrolled
response versus me thinking and responding with intention. Lastly, my spirituality domain is something I
need to develop the most. My goal for
this area is to look at spirituality more broadly and define what it means for
me and not solely based on what I was taught growing up. I have lost touched with spirituality and
have been feeling a strong need to build that area of my life back up.
Practices for Personal Health
To foster growth
physically and work towards warding off high blood pressure, without
medication, for good, I will feed my body more foods from the earth and less
processed foods. To implement this plan,
I will pre-portion fruits, vegetables, nuts and seeds into little baggies that
I can grab and go each day and eat from.
In addition to being more cautious about the foods that I put into my
body, I am going to amp up my workout routine.
Although I work with a personal trainer, I seem to only go to the gym on
those days or just 1 additional day. I
am going to foster my growth physically by getting in a regular routine of
exercising of at least 5 days a week. To
help implement these plans, I am going to develop backup exercise routines that
I can do at home in case I cannot make it to the gym.
To foster growth
psychologically, I am going to practice the two meditation exercises that I
learned in this course. The first
meditation exercise I will practice is the loving-kindness exercise. This will help me think less of myself and
help to harbor negative emotions about others that generate feelings of hate
and anger. In addition to the
loving-kindness exercise, I will practice the subtle mind meditation. This will help me to become more aware of my
thoughts. Once aware, I can control and
make intentional choices versus having automatic responses. I will implement these meditations each day,
starting with the loving-kindness meditation in the morning and ending with the
subtle-mind exercise in the evening.
I feel that I am
really closed-minded when it comes to spirituality. To foster growth in this area, I want to read
different books on spirituality. To
implement this process, I will search and buy books on various topics including
Buddhism, connecting with nature, and the art of praying to broaden my scope of
spirituality. In addition to reading
more about spirituality, I would like to practice other types of meditations
that help me connect to my inner spirit.
I will look on-line for practices on this type of meditation. If I am not successful on my own, I plan to
implement this goal by visiting a nearby meditation center.
Commitment
To gauge whether, I am
lacking or progressing as I further develop my physical domain, I will use how
I look and feel to determine if I need to make changes to my goal and
implementation plan. If I truly do eat
more foods from the earth and exercise more, I will lose a noticeable amount of
body fat in six months. In addition to
how I look and feel, I will also take measurements of my blood pressure
readings. If my blood pressure readings
are normal for a week, I will feel that I am progressing in my goal of warding
off blood pressure, without medication, for good. To assess how I am progressing
psychologically, I will monitor how often I am emotionally hijacked in a period
of a week. Now that I am more aware of
the issue, I can note when it happens throughout the day. I need to monitor now how often it happens so
I can have a baseline to compare to in six months. To assess how I am progressing spiritually, I
will gauge how open I am to the idea of spirituality. If I find that I am still wishy-washy about
the entire topic, then I will consider it a lack of progress and develop a new
plan to foster this area of my life.
To assist in
maintaining long-term practice for health and wellness, I will consistently
remind myself that this is not an overnight process. It takes time and small steps to develop the
skills to flourish in each domain. In addition to my friendly reminder, I will
journal my experience through this process.
This will help me to identify what works and what does not work; what areas
that I need to change and what I can leave as is. Lastly, as I begin to develop further in each
of the domains, to share this with others so they too can experience the
wonderfulness of health, happiness, and wholeness. Inspiring others will inspire me to continue along
with this journey.
Reference
Dacher, E. S. (2006). Integral
health: The path to human flourishing. Laguna Beach: Basic
Health Publications Inc.
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